Slowing down in a fast paced world

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I recently jumped the ship and left my preschool teaching job. Although I miss my coworkers and those little chicken wings (the kids) it was the right move for me to take me in the direction of my purpose. That being said, life did not come to a screeching halt from taking that leap of faith. I moved to a new home with my partner, I had one week to find a part-time/full-time job, I gained 3 contracts teaching yoga to school children and I was planning out a Goddess Ceremony for a client all while in school.

I hadn’t worked full-time in at least 2 years, so that was something to get used to all in itself. My body ached for being on my feet for 8 hours a day after being used to the lots of rest. I also started commuting together with my partner so we had to come up with a new schedule and routine all together for our completely different work hours.

At first, I was loving the fast pace of my life, I was busy all the time, I felt productive and proud of myself for everything I was accomplishing and I loved being a part of a new company whose mission was to protect and restore the environment. I felt inspired and creative immediately by all the changes around me. Of course, this did not last and I soon saw the enormous rock ahead also known as burn-out. Everything went downhill as I quickly became overwhelmed, stressed out, and anxious. I felt like a chicken running around with its head cut off heading toward a cliff.

I noticed I had been avoiding and resisting the call of yoga for a long time. It was something that had helped ground and relax me in times of emotional turmoil, physical pain and anxiety attacks. So naturally, I went back to the mat. Yoga has so many amazing qualities to it that can help everyone and their various needs. There are so many styles of yoga, free online videos, and amazing classes filled with great community and acceptance that a person can choose from. I chose the amazing healing yin and restorative yoga to bring me back down to earth and out of my head.

Personally, I have found that doing something physical and close to the ground is one of the best ways for me to come back to my body, and live in the present moment through the breath. As a “pitta” dosha type, I am naturally hot blooded, busy, fast paced, and always trying to fill up all my time productively. Because of those tendencies, I can become out of balance leading to digestive issues, anger, and burn-out. My pitta was definitely over heating so the relaxing and cooling effects if restorative and yin yoga were exactly what my body needed.

After being brought back down to earth I made it a priority to find some type of schedule that worked for me. I was doing my morning routine only on the days that I was off (twice a week) so its preventative capabilities were not kicking in. On the days that I commuted together with my partner I had to make a promise to myself that I made sure that I went straight to my morning routine once I got home. The specific time was not an issue for me, but I had to prioritize the routine at the top of my list to ensure that it was getting done.

My routine is always done in a slow and mindful pace so it immediately helped me to simmer down and reminded me to breathe. I begin with oil pulling as I indulge in the ritual of making my coffee. The smell of the whole beans as I grind them up, the soothing sound of the hot water boiling and then the sight of the foaming coffee as I pour the water into the French press or Chemex fill me up with gratitude and joy. Once I’ve made the coffee I let it marinate in my special spice blend as I move into the yoga room.

In the yoga room, I light some incense and chant my morning Gongyo, meditate, and write in my 5 Minute Journal. I also have two books that I read from, “Simple Abundance” and “Find Your Happy: Daily Mantras.” Meditation is a great way to bring me out of my head and back into a joyful reality. Sometimes I am able to sit in stillness and other times I am not, but I also show up to find out. Writing and reading are two of my favorite activities to do, so not only does it fill me with joy, but the specific journal and books that I use are filled with love, reflection, and positivity that always put me in a great mood.

The last soothing activity is to for me to take a shower and wash away any negative energy from the day before. It helps me feel like I have a fresh start to my day. Once I am out I do abhyanga or oil massage on my body, another way to find appreciation for what I have.

These two activities have helped me tremendously when it comes to preventing burnout and overwhelm and I highly recommend them to everyone regardless if you are living a busy lifestyle or not. I also recommend morning pages, in which you keep a journal by your side and immediately write your dreams, take a brain dump and then end with a gratitude list the minute you wake up. It is supposed to help release your mind of holding onto everything going on in there at all times. It also allows you to live in appreciation for what you have. These two are said to combine for the ultimate effect of unleashing your true creative potential.

Nature is another amazing way to help you to slow down. I am lucky to live in an area surrounded by beauty- but have yet had a chance to explore it. Even just talking your pet on a walk in the morning and evening or sitting on your balcony and seeing the autumnal change in the trees or watching the Fall rain come down as you sip your coffee can transform your day. Not to mention, it is free.

The last tip to help you slow down is to embrace the change in the seasons. As we quickly transition into Autumn, it is the perfect time to redecorate and rearrange your home, and add in the relaxing effects of cozying up your home for you and your loved ones. This act of relaxing, warmth and community is called “hygge” and is all about slowing down. Add some warm colored twinkly lights to your balcony or bedroom, light some candles or incense, bring in wood for your first fire of the season and cozy up with your favorite blankets as you drink a hot beverage with your lover or best friend.

I don’t anticipate the world around us slowing down any time soon, but that doesn’t mean that we have to allow it all to swallow us up and wring us dry. You are responsible for your well being and for your life- make it a priority to care for yourself every day and I am sure that you will be able to thrive in your environment and show up as your greatest self.

Thank you for reading today and I will be back soon. Please leave questions or tips about slowing down in the comments box below.

 

Love always,

Mabes

my top 5 podcasts

A loved one introduced me to the podcast world, the first one I ever listened to being the Joe Rogan Podcast. I was hooked! The concept of being able to listen to people you enjoy, or are inspired by, talk and interview others about topics you love for FREE was life changing for me. Personally, I am subscribed to over a dozen podcasts and my phone is constantly telling me it is out of space because of the hundreds of episodes I’ve downloaded. Below is a list of my top 5 podcasts that I listen to in no particular order because they are equally amazing!

1.)    Awesome with Allison

2.)    The Highest Self Podcast

3.)    ReWild Yourself

4.)    The Chasing Joy Podcast

5.)    The Melissa Ambrosini Show

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Awesome with Allison is a podcast hosted by Allison and her “sexy” husband Eric. Their topics range from self-help, business tips, and how to make the most of your life. Allison is so funny, bubbly and not afraid to make a fool of herself. I fell in love with her playful personality and genuine intention to want to help others become the best version of themselves.

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The Highest Self Podcast was created by Sahara Rose, famous for her book idiot’s Guide: Ayurveda with the opening written by Deepak Chopra. Sahara is an Ayurveda expert, health and wellness junkie and is not scared to dive into the deep end of the spiritual world and everything that comes with it. I love her podcast because she shares great content, is very knowledgeable about what she says and makes it very easy to  understand. Listen to her if you want the 101 on balancing your chakras or how to live your juiciest and happiest life.

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ReWild Yourself was the second podcast I ever subscribed to. Obviously, I was swayed by Daniel Vitalis’ charm and furry good looks, but the podcast is so much more than that. Daniel is someone who has been through it all and has lived to tell it, resurrecting himself and making his dream life a reality. He’s all about the outdoors, nature, health and hunting. An ex-vegan, I find Daniel truly inspiring and found his content to be extremely helpful through my own vegan-to-omnivore transition, especially episode #143 The Hidden Cost of Veganism with Lierre Keith. Some of my favorite episodes are with Nadine Artemis, founder of Living Libations and all         the shame-free, taboo sex education episodes with Kim Anami and Jaiya. I highly recommend his podcast if you want to channel your inner wild child.

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The Chasing Joy Podcast is hosted by Georgie, blogger for In It 4 The Long Run. A down to earth coffee loving, inspiring introvert from Nantucket. I’m not sure if I stumbled upon her podcast or her blog first, but either way I love her and everything that she creates. Georgie has episodes about overcoming her eating disorder, battling with nutrition and extreme exercising. Her approach is always laid back and she believes that happiness, love, and success looks different for everyone. She’s big on self-care and following your dreams. Listening to her podcast is like having coffee with your best friend. I highly recommend you listen to it!

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The Melissa Ambrosini Show is the podcast I have been listening to religiously when I began my self-development journey. Melissa Ambrosini is the author of Open Wide and Mastering Your Mean Girl. She often talks about her rock bottom and how far she’s come since then into creating the life she’s always wanted and she inspires and motivates her listeners to do the same. Melissa has some of the most interesting and famous guests on her show, and this is the podcast that I’ve downloaded every single episode and have listened to some of them multiple times. I feel like I need to take notes when I play her show! She talks about soulful sex, having happy and healthy relationships, creating your own business of your dreams, financial freedom and            everything in between. This is by far the most life changing podcast that I have ever come across and I highly insist that you all go listen!

Thank you for being here today and I hope I gave you some ideas for new podcasts to check out. If you love any other podcasts please leave them in the comments below! I am always up for listening to some new content!

 

Love always,

Mabes